See Secular Song 580 that I wrote after this
Recently I was admitted in Ramachandra hospital in Chennai to put pacemaker. From the emergency ward in which I was admitted [4.6.2022] till I was discharged [10.6.2022], in each and every section more than 90 percent of the staffs are only woman.
Though all the staffs were very kind and took care of the patients, still without the outstanding noble service of women staffs neither the patients can survive their ordeal nor the hospital can continue to function completely.
Generally I hesitate to go to hospital for any treatment. Even if I had to go I would do my best to come out quickly. Getting admitted in a hospital is the last thing I wanted in life. But for the first time I realized that even a hospital could be your home as women are there too to take care of us, as they do in our homes.
After returned back to my ashram as was I recalling my time in the hospital I wrote this song about women without whom humanity can survive on this earth.
[20/06, 2:16 pm] Dayanand Bharathi: We are back to normal life and Patti continue to dominate and control as women do everywhere
[20/06, 2:52 pm] Padma: O ho but u have written a song on women without whom humanity cannot survive
[20/06, 2:52 pm] Dayanand Bharathi: We have to accept the reality in life. Women not only control our [here exclusively men] life but also know how to take control of everyone’s life
NB: The original context of this song is completely different. After the pacemaker was put, Uma from Salem [Prakash’s wife] sent one Whatsapp message: ‘Less talk more rest’. In response I wrote: ‘Yes Amma, we have to obey women.’ For this she responded by sending another message: ‘Support from you for women, what a surprise’. I sent back my response to this: Ok, let me write one song praising woman’. When she wrote back, ‘Awaiting’, I sent another message, ‘Be ready for the shock. I am going to write a song praising women’.
But when I reflected about my days in the hospital though I teased Uma, still as I am not against women and always supported them [if you don’t believe see ‘Women versus Men’ in my blog] I wrote this song really praising them, particularly for their ‘MOTHERHOOD’ and ‘nurturing nature’.
I want to record another observation about women in life. They are multi-task people. A woman can be a wife, mother, sister, daughter and daughter-in-law simultaneously handling every challenge easily. Whereas most of the men are single task oriented people. Though he has many roles to play in life, still in real life he can play one role at a time. Recently I was staying with my sister. Her son will never go to the kitchen and even make a cup of tea for him. His wife or mother alone does all the kitchen work. One evening after he got up after lunch his wife went to the kitchen to prepare a cup of tea for him. That time their second son got up. So she asked my nephew to see him. But he was lying lazily on the sopha asked her to go and see. So she has taken her son and keeps her on the hip and prepares the tea for her husband and serves him. After the tea, when she again tried to give the boy to her husband, he said, ‘just I got up and relaxing. Don’t dump the boy immediately on me. Let me relax for a few minutes’. Knowing his nature, she kept quiet. After ten minutes when she raised her head and sent the message to him through her eyes, unable to disobey took the boy to the open terrace to play cricket with him. I even noticed this not only in the life of my sister but also many other women. They will carry the baby on their hip and cook, keep an eye on the other child and others in the home, meanwhile attend phone calls, and do many other tasks. One eye she will keep in the kitchen, another eye she will keep on the family members [except on father-in-law as he will be under the surveillance of her mother-in-law] and she will keep the invisible [but very powerful] third eye on her mother-in-law [mother-in-law doing the same with all her three eyes]. [The invisible third eye is their natural missile and anti-missile defence system against each other.]
Whereas in general man can do only one work at a time as he always lives with the principle ‘one day at a time’? That is why someone well said that: while men seek pleasure, women seek pleasure and security.
Gurukulam, 20-06-2022,
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