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Instant Satisfaction

Instant satisfaction is the curse of our age. Although many are aware of this, few speakers have the courage to confront both the fake gurus who promise it for a fee and the seekers who claim to attain it within a week or two through workshops or classes. Thankfully, on May 16th, 2009, Sri Suki Sivam challenged this notion, particularly concerning ‘enlightenment,’ on Sun TV.

This wasn’t the first time. Suki Sivam regularly addresses sensitive issues and boldly asserts his views. His exposure of hypocrisy among both laypeople and religious leaders is particularly remarkable. My intention here is not merely to support Suki Sivam but to highlight the need to distinguish between a ‘detractor’ and a ‘reviewer’ on such matters. When we share our views, sometimes very critically, we are often labeled as ‘fault finders.’

Critics of such speakers argue, “Some people derive pleasure from always finding fault in everything others do. Instead of appreciating the good aspects, they focus only on mistakes and failures. That’s why people often ignore such critics and continue doing what they believe is right. At least, despite all the shortcomings, more people are seeking spirituality. As young people show interest, speakers should encourage them rather than finding fault.”

However, just as a doctor’s primary duty is to diagnose and treat a disease, a reviewer’s duty is to offer constructive feedback. A fault finder, driven by an inferiority complex, comments negatively to mask their own shortcomings. In contrast, a speaker like Suki Sivam aims to steer the boat, not let it drift with every wave and wind. The day after his comments on instant satisfaction, he also spoke about courageously facing failures and encouraged those feeling defeated in life (perhaps in light of the election results).

Building on his remarks, I’d like to add a point about seeking instant spirituality through shortcuts. Many youngsters pursue such ‘experiences’ as a form of therapy to escape the stress they have created through their busy lives. These days, even a lazy person seems to have no time for anything. As they chase ‘progress’ and ‘satisfaction,’ they seek quick fixes through shortcuts. They believe that ‘instant nirvanas’ will provide the therapy they need to overcome stress and the problems caused by their lifestyle. However, nature’s law cannot be altered in everything. Seeking true spirituality is part of a natural process within us, not something attainable through outward activities, workshops, or classes. Fortunately, since nature never sets a price on its generous gifts, spirituality cannot be bought at any price set by readymade gurus.

Gurukulam, May 20, 2009